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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think this would work for me under any circumstances but, especially in the “I’m sorry but I fell out of love scenario”. To me that’s someone who doesn’t know how to love in an adult, mature way and views the honeymoon/butterflies stage as love. I’d be out. [/quote]

I have a former friend like that. She had multiple affairs that her husband was clueless about. It was always the next big love. Although she was content to be in the big McMansion not working while “out of love”. Never a good enough person to see the harm or have empathy for the others she was harming, like her spouse and kids. She was having her cake and eating it too. When it all blew up—the “I was out of love” excuse was used (for years out of love and multiple betrayals??). I guess she kept being out of love with every affair partner eventually too.

OP- that is the type of person you are dealing with that cheats because it’s no longer “new relationship energy”. They seek dopamine hits from new partners and will again and again. I couldn’t deal with her drama and didn’t condone the behavior.[/quote]

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