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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I, a male, initiated our divorce and it was years coming and I waited until we became empty nesters and for my children to understand why, which they did. My ex was always in a state of anger and took it out on the kids first and then on me. I had plenty of time to prepare and I announced it and moved out within two days to a place I had rented. She wanted to make the divorce ugly but our kids told her I was doing the right thing and if she made it ugly they wouldn’t speak to her. There was no infidelity at least on my part, just years of frustration. That was three years ago and I’m happy and my kids live with me when they are visiting. [/quote]

Sounds like she was cheating, no?  Kids won’t usually stop talking/staying with their mother..[/quote]

I don’t think so, but I don’t really care. If you are a teenager and your mother is angry and yelling all the time wouldn’t you want out. They do speak with her now but rarely visit her. Her anger is still there. [/quote]

Yelling at what?  
You didn’t do your homework or pick up your mess on your own accord or when reminded?

Better at Do Whatever Dads place eating pizza and iPads?

Some kids see through lazy parenting and some kids prefer lazy parenting. Unfortunately this decisions greatly affects their future college and work options and success. Codependency and enabling is rampant with lazy parenting. [/quote]

How fortunate for you that you do not even understand the concept of growing up with a mother who is so angry she yells all the time.[/quote]

What’s she yelling about?

Who is she yelling at?

Each time, what did she try before the yelling? [/quote]

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