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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Set a rule no dating in high school and you avoid all this drama.[/quote]

Great! Then they experience this for the first time when they are alone. Good idea!![/quote]

They will be older and more mature and have plenty of friends. Mommy doesn’t have to help with heartbreak. [/quote]

My friend waited to date in college because her parents forced her.  She thought she was in love but the first guy she started seeing and he was only using her.  She was a simpleton and completely naive with what to do or how to handle typical male, let alone typical college males.  He embarrassed her at a party and was with another girl.  She went back to her dorm and took a ton of pills and thankfully I left the party to check on her (once I realized she left) My friend and I had to call 911.  She never came back that semester and I never talked to her again (pre cell phones)

So I absolutely do not believe you should forbid dating in high school.  Watch closely and help out as needed.  Dads need to talk about how they were as guys to their daughter and moms need to talk about how girls feel in high school.  Of course you can't forbid relationships, certain people, etc... but just be there for them.  [/quote]

That’s an extreme example, c’mon. It’s not black and white - dating in HS can be a valuable experience, for sure but it’s not essential or risky not to.[/quote]

+1 thank you. Not dating in high school is absolutely ok and I wish more people would encourage it. I see so many girls go down the wrong path due to guys in high school and it’s sad.[/quote]

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