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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We were lucky our two oldest kids (a DS and DD) experienced their first heartbreaks while still living at home. I agee with the PPs about acknowledging their pain and making sure they are engage in other stuff. I also used it as an opportunity to talk about life - any time you love, you risk heartbreak but that it's worth it. That it's never easy but the first one is the worst and the important thing is to learn healthy coping mechanisms. I also created Spotify playlists for both kids - but very different ones! One kid had the added experience of being cheated on (and gaslit), the other kid needed a playlist that reaffirmed their value and worth - I also allowed them to add songs to the playlist. Both kids are well past it now but we all still curate the playlists. I know they've both shared them with their friends. HTH[/quote] That’s awesome. [/quote]
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