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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you put “a woman” in parentheses in your opening paragraph?  That was evident from the pronouns you used in the subsequent numbered list.

Just struck me as unnecessary (and maybe telling).[/quote]

This is OP.  I did not want to make my (long) post even longer but I had referenced her being a woman because I intended to explain further that I had heard she has historically had difficulty with other employees who were women because she felt threatened by them. She gets along just fine with men. For me this is very difficult because right now although there are other women in the office, I am the only one with the target on my back. She engages in a lot of exclusionary behavior - i.e., calling all of the employees but me into her office to tell a personal story; joking with the other employees but not me; making a big deal of showing something she bought or saw to all of the other employees except for me; rolling her eyes when I speak, etc.  It very much gives high school vibes and I am not used to it.[/quote]

Oh my goodness, OP. I had a boss like this a few years ago. I’m so sorry you’re in the position. I was good at my job, people liked me, and the vicious b$&@! made my life a living hell. I hung on for several months, filed a complaint against her, and so glad I gave her some hell before I found snorted job. The men stood by and did nothing as usual because they’ll just never stand up to an awful female supervisor. I talked to a lawyer who says get out, it will never get better, she wants to show the boys she’s tough too and you’re her target.

You have to get out of there. She’s going nowhere. She’ll just feel more and more empowered. On some level she loves being the alpha female in the room with the mean doting on or tearing her. You’re a threat snd she wants to destroy you. Get out. Don’t grove her the opportunity to harm you. [/quote]

Corrections… I gave her hell before I found another job (not snorted 😂)

She loves being the alpha female with the men doting in her or fearing her.

These situations show how feral and animal
like humans can be. She’s acting like a territorial animal in the wild. [/quote]

This is OP. You've nailed her - she loves acting tough in front of the guys and they dote on her and kiss up to her, all while watching this happen to me.[/quote]

OP, is she someone’s relative or spouse? Does she have a political connection or a family with money? The bully I once worked for did. [/quote]

No. She’s just a longtime federal government employee. [/quote]

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