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[quote=Anonymous]I always wonder if behind these gendered expectations is sadness that the son/DH doesn’t care enough to visit himself. I’m sure she’d be happy to see your kids but it’s got to hurt you make time for your family but he doesn’t make time for his. It’s easier to blame you than for seeing it for the truth it is. People make time for their priorities. If your husband wanted to see her he would. You can’t fix this. I agree with the previous poster that my actions are generally guided by what I think is best for my kids. My ILs are decent people and I think it benefits my kids to have a relationship with them so I try to make that happen. It’s not the same or equal to what they have with my parents but I find a balance best I can [/quote]
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