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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was dating my boyfriend in my early 40s and let him know i had no plans to become a mother he told me he was so relieved.  He said it is common knowledge among men that women 35-40 are desperately looking for *sperm donors.*[/quote]

I am 42 and divorced. I ended relationships with 3 women aged 35, 39 and 40 because they wanted a child and they dot not go around the bush to make it clear. In fact I felt like they wanted the child more than they wanted me. I guess this will be more and more common as women now want children much later in life. This could also explain why many women nowadays are seeking much younger men. [/quote]

They are not just looking for sperm donors: if that was the case, these women would have gone SMBC or adoption route.  They are looking for a provider, and potential future payor of alimony/child support. And that is a problem for most divorced men in their 40s who already have kids. I am mid 40s woman and have no issues finding men my age to date for serious relationships. They all flock from marriage crazed 30s ladies, even those men who generally are marriage oriented.[/quote]

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