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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh, OP, how is your DH getting out of this with no criticism or guilt trips? It seems really convenient that he’s always working when stuff hits the fan. My DH is like this so I know- when hard family stuff escalates he glues himself to his computer or schedules urgent work trips. But I’ve been with him long enough that I’ve seen him rearrange that same kind of stuff when it truly mattered to him (best friend’s wedding, taking care of beloved dog, interesting vacation opportunity) so I know that he hides behind work. It’s an excuse that families- especially parents- tolerate and even celebrate. My mom and MIL let my DH get away with murder because they both have a fixation on good providers. Anyway, you can’t be the adult daughter to two different sets of parents. DH can take care of his family. You took care of yours. [/quote]
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