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Reply to "Not attractive enough for the men I am attracted to"
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[quote=Anonymous]You're overestimating the importance of appearance, at least for men of the type you'd want to be interested in you. The exception is weight - being overweight is a singificant handicap because that is usually interpreted (rightly or wrongly) as reflecting a character weakness. In your case, that's a non-issue, but you lack confidence in the value of the non-physical attributes you may possess which men usually find attractive, e.g., intelligence, education, a demonstrable interest in being healthy, professional accomplishment, dressing with at least some care, being at least a little adventurous, good conversational skills, and other non-gender-specific traits which are usually perceived as reflecting an attractive personality. [/quote]
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