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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If confidence was such an easy trait to acquire I assure you women will the ones chasing men and not the other way around. Very few men have that confidence that women often talk about and these are the men that all women are chasing in real life and on OLD. The vast majority of men are simply invisible to women. It’s unfortunate because some of these men while not the most confident or engaged can be very good bfs or husbands. [/quote]

I disagree. Confidence can be acquired with practice and effort, but some men don't try because they think they need things they can't change in order to be confident. Take salary. Some guys think that because a woman's ideal partner earns a lot of money, if a man doesn't earn a lot of money, he is worth less in the eyes of women. So some men who make average or below go slumping around believing that they aren't man enough. But nobody is perfect, and there are a lot of women would much rather have a confident, funny man who is making 60K a year than an insecure one making 100K. It's the same thing for a chubby woman who has a chip on her shoulder or no sense of self worth because men like .7 hip/waist ratios. You're not everyone's fantasy? Join the club! Really, if you know you're a good person you have no reason not to be confident in who you are. Of course everyone has their insecurities, but that doesn't have to make you an insecure person. My husband is short and he's a little insecure about it, but he sort of owns being insecure and can joke about it. He still has a strong sense of self and this great presence.[/quote]

.7 hip/waist ratio is a new one to me! I’m always learning something. But shouldn’t it be waist/hip where the waist is 70% of the hip size? How does the chest factor in? [/quote]

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