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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of the worst days of my life was when my ex wife offered 1, 2 and 3.  [/quote]

What's wrong with Option 2?  It's unfair to unilaterally impose celibacy on your partner if you've lost interest, but they have not without incurring resentment, and at least with an open marriage, you are honest about it from the start, so there's theoretically no breach of trust, and both partners are free to do the same thing.  In theory, I like Option 2 because it seems to be the fairest solution. [/quote]

I'm not saying options 1 or 2 are "wrong" in a moral sense but I wanted to have sex with my wife, not some other woman who was frustrated with her own husband.  I felt like being offered those options meant that I wasn't loved, which was basically true.  By then my ex wife loved me because I was a good provider and good father of her children.  She didn't love me romantically.  I get sad thinking about it.  We were really great in the early years.[/quote]

So there was a period of time that your relationship wasn’t sexless? Was she in agreement with the divorce?[/quote]

The best sex of my life was with her, before we had kids, but she lost interest. She didn't want a divorce but she has a new partner now and probably has sex with him.  I know he sleeps over because the kids told me.  [/quote]

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