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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Stop doing everything right and going along with it.[/b] Men don’t have any respect for women who are kind to them.

This was a hard lesson for me to learn and very difficult for me to implement because I’m a naturally laid back and low maintenance person. But when I did, I started being treated better.

Don’t listen to all the men who are going to say that they don’t like high maintenance, demanding b-ches. They’re lying to you or to themselves. [/quote]

Can you give some examples of what you mean by “stop doing everything right”?

I think I have the same problem as you and OP.[/quote]

I and another PP recommended why men love b****es above, and you should probably read that. But some things that are probably examples of “doing everything right”:

1. Dropping everything to be with him when he wants you to

2. Cooking/baking for him a lot or too soon

3. Doing his laundry or cleaning his house

4. Letting him get away with saying something rude, ever.

5. Being willing to accept huge flaws like drinking too much, being unemployable, etc.

6. Smoothing over situations by readily accepting blame or apologizing a lot.

7. Asking for respect and good treatment verbally (as though it’s negotiable), or stooping to explaining to him why something is disrespectful acceptable.

8. Not maintaining your own friends, interests, etc. Being too available for a man. You want a man to be a part of your life, not the main plot.

9. Changing your interests or personality for him.

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