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[quote=Anonymous]I think there’s nothing wrong with being a single parent by choice and nothing wrong with parenting (single or partnered) with lots of help if you can manage it — I know a single dad by choice who’s an attorney so he has almost round the clock childcare on call. But he adores his baby and refuses to travel more than one day for work. My single mom by choice friends are similar in that they’ve stepped back from work travel because they want to spend time with their kids. I think it’s odd to want to become a parent but not actually parent and if this person is so driven to become a parent it’s possible they may want to change their professional career to be more accommodating to parenthood once their child is born so they should probably have a backup plan for that too. Personally I don’t think I would feel comfortable with a hired nanny for multiple overnights; I’d only be willing to do that if there was a sibling or other family member who effectively wanted to coparent with me. But that might be my lower class roots showing — nannies are alien to my experience.[/quote]
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