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[quote=Anonymous]I’m pretty easy going about outcomes. I can pick a restaurant or a dish off a menu because it’s not my last meal. Even big things like picking a college or my spouse, transferring schools or getting divorced is inconvenient and expensive, but not impossible. I am comfortable being uncomfortable and optimistic enough that I will try to make the best of something before I give up and quit. I think a lot of people who are indecisive are actually unable to tolerate even the smallest amount of physical or emotional discomfort and then become anxious about making the “wrong” choice. If someone else makes the choice and then they are unhappy, they feel like they can voice their complaints. However if it’s someone who complains a lot, they correctly have deduced that their family has little patience for listening to complaints about the outcome of their own choices. Being accountable for something that doesn’t turn out perfectly is just one more discomfort they can’t deal with. [/quote]
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