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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, the cursing at you would be something I’d bring up. If my husband ever curses at me, there would be a Come to Jesus talk. We don’t speak to each other that way, and never have.[/quote]

Agreed. DH here. I have never cursed AT my DW. I have cursed like “F” or “S” as expletives but never directed at her.

And the lazy comment? WTAF.

Something is way the heck up, from brain tumor, to affair, to he’s been stewing about divorce for years and nearing a decision

A personnel issue at work? Let’s tease this out. Let’s imagine a stressful scenario: he’s firing an incompetent employee, and this employee is reacting badly, say making threats to him or his family. How in the world does work escalate to foul language name calling at home??

Now if he has a pattern of calling other people “ah” and the like, and you were just never the receiver of his ill will, maybe he has just let down his final behavior to show you the real him. But your Op seems to say he is the antithesis of that so something is WAY off. [/quote]

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