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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should feel awful. And the fact that you’re using the cancer to try to turn yourself into the victim is manipulative and disgusting. No wonder your husband has had enough and is trying to support your DC.[/quote]

This really stuck out to me too. The "i dont want to get sick again".   What does that have to do with anything?   Your daughter being a jerk and stressing you out isnt going to bring your cancer back. I sure hope you're not insinuating that to her. [/quote]

Clearly OP is in a state of trauma and blaming her daughter for her cancer.

She needs deep and intense therapy.[/quote]

Totally agree, and I was scrolling looking for this comment. I can't imagine how it feels to be dealing with cancer and parenting a teen at the same time. Hell, if I even get a cold I find myself yelling at my kids more. But that's a me problem, not a them problem.

DCUM is an anonymous, safe space so it's OK that OP wanted to vent about all of it at once, but I do hope she takes a step back to think about why these two separate issues are so intrinsically tied in her mind. My heart really goes out to her but I do think that diving more deeply into that might help her manage her feelings around her daughter (and possibly her health) differently. [/quote]

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