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[quote=Anonymous]I guess I was about 53 when I finally internalized that many people are just not nice or good people. For me, that included my mother and brother. They are also very popular people, most people like them a lot and want to hang out with them. But they aren’t kind people. They have never been kind to me or my child. Theyve done what they need to do to feel and look like they’re polite and nice. But there is just no sensitivity or warmth or kindness toward me, or really toward anyone. Once I realized this, it became instantly easier to see that it was never about me. It’s about them. They don’t love me. They also don’t really love anyone else or each other. Grief is the price we pay for love. For you, OP, you are grieving that you love your family but they don’t love you back. That means that you really love them. That’s a wonderful capacity and will give you a richer life. Just not with them. I am so sorry. It hurts. [/quote]
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