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[quote=Anonymous]So I was not spoiled as a child, trust me, we barely had money so it wasn't possible. My mother and I had a REALLY rough time during wedding planning, our communication was just really really off. It took until I had my first child to realize how bad things were. I took some blame and she took some blame. Do NOT reject her, that's not fair to her. Talk to her how you feel. Use "I" statements instead of "you" statements, ask her how she feels. The fact that she's spoiled couldn't have been a surprise to you, what about the wedding made you expect differently? She may have treated you badly at the wedding because she was nervous and couldn't act out to anyone else. All just thoughts. Give her the benefit of the doubt, she's your daughter, set your boundaries but don't throw her away. [/quote]
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