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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In this area, I get it. We only have one and it's definitely partially driven by COL here. If jobs weren't tied to this area, we would have moved and I think would have had another kid. Not only would we have been able to move for lower COL, we also would been able to move closer to family, which can help with the affordability of kids. Where we are now, we have to pay for our support system and it's expensive. [b]I don't know why a dual income couple in a less expensive area would claim they couldn't afford kids. I guess it's either crippling student debt or just an attachment to a very expensive lifestyle (frequent travel, eating out all the time, nice clothes, fancy gyms, etc.) that eats up all their disposable income. But that's not about not being able to afford kids, it's about valuing kids less than that other stuff. Which is fine, but not the same thing as being too poor to have children so it's a weird way to frame it.[/b][/quote] You said it yourself, jobs are tied to your area. Low cost areas also have lower wages, not to mention that many adults work low wage jobs that barely cover rent. There is such a thing as being too poor to have children, but it's too scary to think about it.[/quote]
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