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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn’t a work from home problem. [/quote] Op here. It's related. if he wasn't home so much, I wouldn't feel the need to engage with him [/quote] So pretend he’s out in the office. He’s working, it just happens to be from home. [/quote] I'm not good at pretending. Should I also pretend working 50-60 hours a week is normal? He locks himself in his office on the weekends and every evening for at least 3 hours. [/quote] So, as people have said, this isn't a during-work-hours problem. This is an after hours problem. He sounds unhappy with the situation you are in so is limiting contact. You need to stop focusing on the work hours, and leave him alone then. After that, if you maintain some distance during the day, then address the after hours thing. But seriously, you sound lonely, needy and whiny. All that does is push someone further away.[/quote] This. I wouldn't want to spend time with OP either. [/quote]
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