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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tbh I don’t think it’s the kids. It’s however their parents have taught them to view you over the years. [/quote]

Yes, that sadly might be true. My brother married young and built a family. I have not found anyone. I think they disapprove and assume I live a wild lifestyle when it's really not that way at all. I work, I hang out with my dog, I have a few friends. 
Unfortunately, several of my single friends have noted that they feel isolated by the rest of their family because they're unmarried. The sad thing is that most of us did want to marry and have kids, but it just didn't happen, and it adds insult to injury to cut us out socially. 
Luckily this hasn't effected my relationship with my parents. We're really close. [/quote]

I’m sorry, OP. You seem like a truly nice person. It’s wonderful that you love your family.  Hopefully at least one or two of the kids will appreciate you as they age.  As a twenty something, both my DH and I were close with extended relatives on both sides.  This might happen because being a real adult can be tough and you need encouragement and someone to listen.

Also I agree that this is largely due to the parents.  [b]I hate the American way of only seeing immediate family as real family[/b].  [/quote]

I hate when people make blanket characterizations like this about American families that are flatly untrue.[/quote]

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