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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ummm no you can’t control other people’s reactions to the way your husband is a creep who blatantly disrespects you. You might be used to it but no one else is. [/quote]

“a creep who blatantly disrespects you”?

Please. I’m not OP but the first few replies here are clearly from the miserable DCUM divorcees who are bringing all their own baggage to the party.

It’s not inherently “disrespectful” for one spouse to refer to some other human as attractive. It’s utterly mundane. If you think this kind of comment is beyond the pale, that is a good hint about why you are bitter and alone. [/quote]

He didn’t say she was attractive.

He said she was sultry.

He sounds creepy and my h and I often comment to each other when we see an attractive person

But we are not creepy about it.[/quote]

Do you know what sultry means?[/quote]

Yes.

Do you know the difference between someone getting in an elevator and saying wow, you look nice today as compared to looking you up and down and saying wow… You look sultry today.[/quote]

Yes, there’s a difference, but that isn’t what OP’s DH did. To use your example, a year after that elevator ride when he was out to dinner with other people he mentioned having seen a sultry woman in an elevator. Odd? Maybe. Creepy and offensive? No. [/quote]

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