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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to spend less time online and more time in person meeting people.  Join clubs or teams that have a good mix of guys and women: salsa, swing, tango, kickball, soccer, softball, alumni clubs, gaming, for example.  Get a roommate or two and check out their hobbies.  Go out to bars and parties in dc on weeknights like Tue/wed/thurs when the crowd is more mature.  Accept all invites to parties.  Invest in in person networking and ditch the apps.  Just show up.  You are burning precious time on that tiny screen to nowhere.  [/quote]

Salsa 100%. I hate dancing but my therapist FORCED to do something that gives me anxiety to work on my anxiety. I joined a Salsa club and that’s how I met my current fiancé. The club I was at had a mix of single, divorced, and married women. There were more men than women. And most of the men was between a 1 and 4 out of 10. I am more like a 7 or 8, in very good shape, bi-racial, tall (6’3) but very introverted and shy. I won’t lie that you I was a piece of meat. But it could have also been my luck. The particular club that I joined at the time that I joined might have been the right environment to meet a woman. But I’m glad I was lucky. Prior to this I had mix success on line. Despite being attractive on OLD I think many women never reached out to me because they perhaps thought they could always do better by scrolling who knows. [/quote]

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