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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you jealous that you’re not married to the father of your child?[/quote]
This has nothing to do with jealousy. I feel no jealousy towards her. - I don’t even dislike her I dislike the way she treats me. I am my own person. We are practically engaged and the only reason we even put off engagement/marriage was because we wanted to be somewhat financially stable. I don’t understand why people think it’s me or keep coming at me like I’m the issue. I’m genuinely letting people know I’ve tried very hard with her to be kind and I feel like I’m just getting attacked on this post. [/quote]

You want to be financially stable for marriage so held off but you have a child together? I'm going to go out on a limb and say you probably live together too.

Your reason for not being married is your business - but the lame excuses are just that...excuses. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You can say no - but like your original post - somehow that doesn't sit right with you so you came here - and are mad that ppl actually have an opinion that doesn't fit your narrative.

The first thing you need to do is drop the chip on your shoulder. No one forced you to buy gifts or be kind to someone you say treats you badly. Maybe you need to grow up and address why that is - why you do things for others that treat you badly rather than trying to go off on everyone in this post - because truly we do not care if you go or not but don't ask for advice and get mad at everyone for giving it.[/quote]

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