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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]You should go [/b]out of goodwill to your future mother-in-law (assuming you are going to marry your boyfriend, it's not clear). And in case it isn't obvious (because it sounds like you don't know), the bride to be wouldn't be the one inviting you. She's the guest of honor. The MIL (your boyfriend's mother) is the host. She invited you because she considers you part of the family. You should go. It will go a long way in maintaining a great relationship with your child's grandmother.

(I say all this because you sound really, really young, and maybe you don't know how these things work).[/quote]

Totally disagree. No need to make things political here. She's in school and has a child and the guest of honor is mean to her. I don't think OP should go.[/quote]

NP. Disagree. I do think there is SOME responsibility to go and keep peace. Additionally, OP's "mean" treatment . . . seems one-sided, vague, and subjective. Certainly not "mean." Not going would just be setting up yourself for constant drama with this person who is going to be in your life, like it or not.

And also, the first PP is right. The SIL shouldn't be the one inviting you so no reason to get your nose out of joint about that. [/quote]

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