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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again --I'm also interested in hearing more from those who went to counseling -- e.g., what sort of counselor, what issues to focus on, etc. I once tried seeing a therapist about my feelings toward motherhood, but it was not a good fit and I did not try again.[/quote] I'm the PP whose husband was worried about affording a child, etc. We went to marriage counseling. We went for 3-4 months. We met with her the first time, outlined our issues and gave background, and she sussed out what was making us wary about having a baby. Then each week she gave us homework (like plotting out a budget which led to DH seeking a financial planner) and then we'd discuss it the following week. Some therapists, like hairdressers, are not a good fit, and you simply have to try a couple to find one you click with, who you truly feel is hearing your issues. [/quote]
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