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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I won't lie... I occasionally drive past each of my (divorced) parents former homes and feel nostalgic. So many memories wrapped up in those houses. But your kids will get over it. You will have so much less stress by downsizing. Don't feel guilty. It's ok for everyone to acknowledge that it's sad saying goodbye to a home.[/quote]

I drive past my childhood home, which is about an hour away, every few years or so. I have such fond memories of growing up there. I have the house saved to my favorites list on Redfin to track if it goes on the market. I doubt I would buy it, but I would certainly schedule a tour to see the inside one last time, and I would love it if my dad is still alive to tour it with me. About ten years ago, during a driveby, I took a picture of the house and street sign and have them framed and hanging in my foyer. I also have a painting of my grandparent's house framed and hanging in my living room.

So, as you can see, I am highly sentimental and nostalgic!

However, op's kids need to get over it. Encourage them to do memory lane drivebys, take pictures, etc. Memories are a wonderful thing, but life goes on, and their well-done upbringing is complete. The parents don't owe them a burdensome house to hold on to.[/quote]

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