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[quote=Anonymous]I was in your boat (terrible childhood was my reason) and DH and I did talk about it extensively with my therapist before taking the plunge. It was the right choice for us, but definitely only one. DC is a joy, I adore him, and am loving parenthood more than I ever imagined I would. AND I am strung-out, exhausted, never getting enough down time or quiet or time to myself, and my relationship with DH has suffered. DH really wanted to be a parent and is a great father, building on being a great feminist partner that seems to be so rare on DCUM. I am glad we had a child but we did need to do some relationship work to get to that point.[/quote]
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