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[quote=Anonymous]The horror of this situation is that, while it would be straightforward af were it a stranger, this is your so-called partner. The damage to your trust bond may be irreparable. The violation here is obvious, and should be obvious, and if he's anything less than mortified, divorce him immediately. It wasn't the booze; alcohol just drops people's filters. He already had it in his head that he was entitled to your body, regardless of your feelings or your consent.

And he gets to be responsible for ALL. OF. THAT. He ruined his reputation already. You are under NO obligation to protect him, or keep quiet about what he did to you. Talk to your family, your friends, a therapist, clergy (if you have faith folx you speak with). Don't bottle any of this. You're entitled to whatever feelings come up, whether it's sadness or rage or shame (which you shouldn't feel, but marrying an idiot is a particular shame I know all too well)...

I wouldn't stay with a man like this. I can only imagine how heartbreaking that is for you, especially with a newborn, but how would it ever be possible to trust someone this selfish, this self-centered, this dick-centric ever again? Your basic bodily autonomy mattered less than his orgasm. When will you feel safe in your own home when he's around?

I'm sorry he's horrible, OP. You deserve better.[/quote]

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