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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d look at my profile or have a friend look at it and critique it. What you think you are communicating may not be what people read or interpret. Sadly, there are plenty of dirt bags out there who put BS in their profiles when what they are looking for is sex. I hate the apps so I use my pretty extensive network of friends, family and business friends to help make connections. [/quote]

Yes I agree it may be a disconnect in profile. My 24-year niece was visiting the other day and was swiping through a new dating app after a breakup (this past summer, so not too recent) and lamenting that she was terrible at choosing men. She stated that she wanted to find a guy that wasn’t just interested in physical contact in two dates and then moving on.
Then I watched her type out a response to a “chosen” guy with an opening line that included a very suggestive double entendre and a mention of her “body count”…

I was like “uuuuuhhhh how is that aligning with what you just said you wanted?”

Maybe OP is doing the same thing? Saying she wants one thing but leading with something else and then getting confused when the guys get the wrong idea?[/quote]

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