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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most people will parent similar to how they were parented. I would look at their family of origin.

We all want different things out of our partners too, we don't all want them to be dads the same way. Some people just want a good financial provider. Others want an energetic dad who is on the floor playing with kids, whereas some people don't care about that. I too think that you set the stage early for what you expect from your spouse. My spouse didn't grow up getting read to. I cut that out quick and he now enjoys reading for 30 min to them. He also does 50% of kid chores and we take turns with different things. DH and I listen to child discipline books and discuss them together. [/quote]

Yes, most (but not all) parent how they were parented. My parents were good, but far too traditional. My mom did all the kids stuff, my dad earned a good stable UMC lifestyle.  I wanted a man who would be better than my dad. I never connected with my father.  DH was loving and close to his family. Although his parents were as traditional as mine, we discussed dual career path and kids in detail before marriage. My advice is to look for a good communicator and have the conversation when it gets serious. If you cannot do this how can you possibly navigate the inevitable difficulties ahead.[/quote]

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