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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, I was the child of a single mother and I never new my bio dad growing up. I actually feel this was a very positive influence on my life, as I did not have to deal with split custody, different parenting styles, and arguing parents, like the rest of my friends with split parents. I always considered myself very lucky. And yes, this did affect my relationship with my mother- in that I admired her that much more for having the strength to do it alone, and now she is still my best friend.

Now, I say this not to make you abandon efforts with your child's father, but to help you realize that him being out of the picture is not the end of the world.

Something else I'm surprised no one else has suggested; if one of your main concerns is him being able to safely care for the baby, tell him he needs to take an infant care class, and get CPR certified, both of these things are available through most hospitals and community centres, just look around. If he agrees, well then that's a very good sign on his committment going forward.

Oh. I just noticed this thread is a few months old, so I hope everything has settled some for all involved. Good luck![/quote]

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