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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you marry him, will his vows be, “THIS time, FOR REAL, I promise…”[/quote]

NP. He may not use those words, OP, but yes, this will be communicated to you somehow -- or you'll tell yourself this.

Dating? Because you and he share some interests in common and have fun together? Sure.

But if you are at all thinking eventually you want to marry or be in a committed relationship -- with anyone -- don't put time and energy into dates that won't lead to that goal.

Dating a twice-divorced person, if your own goal is dating to find a relationship/marriage, would be wasting time and emotional effort. Of course there are exceptions, he could be a great guy, self-aware, has "done the work" on himself, etc. but short of ALL that, I'd be concerned about the track record, even if he's positive about his exes and they're positive about him.

Source: Decades of observing a close relative who was married five times. No lie, five. And each one was The One until she wasn't, or until things were not smooth and easy every single day. [/quote]

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