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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That sounds incredibly hard. My sense is that if you can somehow manage to project genuine happiness for her and acceptance of her feelings, you will be the irreplaceable, immovable figure in her life for years to come. Of course you’ll want to scream inside but try to just light up when you see her, even if it feels like you’re getting scraps. When she’s in her 20’s you can expect more graciousness and parity [/quote] This! I would also try to write her a letter to articulate how you feel. Talk about how you are happy that she is bonded with her dad and step mom. Show genuine happiness. Express sadness that you feel, but only from a place of love. She may not receive this well at first, but at least you put it out there and made yourself vulnerable. This way, you know that she knows.[/quote]
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