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[quote=Anonymous]I feel like there are two different issues here. One is that he was thoughtless. Making a meal in front of you, and not offering to make you one wasn't cool. Maybe he assumed you ate. Maybe something else was going on. But you can say "I was hurt that you made yourself breakfast, and didn't offer to make some for me, can we talk about it?" and have an adult conversation. The other issue, about whether it's fair that you make all the meals, depends on the bigger picture. I like to cook, and I do it well. My DH doesn't like to do it, and what he makes sucks. So, until my kid were old enough to cook, I did it all, and DH did other things, and the division was OK by me. But if the division you have isn't working, then that's a separate conversation to have. But separate the two because they are really two different things. [/quote]
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