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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the scapegoat in our large family. I ended up in a loving marriage with successful kids. I am not wealthy but comfortable which is considered worthless. I have grandkids that are the love of my life. [b]My mother and my siblings hate me. Like HATE me. Things did not end up the way they thought they would. [/b]They are miserable and, for whatever reason, that makes me sad. At the end of the day we are all victims of severe dysfunction. I don’t have a relationship with any of them but would engage with one of them after mother dies as she is the driving force. [/quote] Scapegoat here. I am in a similar position. I think my family is furious that their position that I was a POS, based on nothing more than their own sick dynamics, did not bear out. They begrudge me my (pretty significant) success. They can go to H-E-L-L where they belong. [/quote]
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