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OP, a word of warning: You say you haven't hung out with "the entirely" of this group for at least a [i]decade[/i].

You really want to fly all the way to another country and spend a huge chunk of time and $ with people you don't really know any more? Why? Sure, maybe some of this group are still friends of yours, but you really can't have any idea if some of these other guys are absolutely going on this trip for the sex tourism and who knows what else. The guys who are still friends of yours also may behave very differently once they get out of the country and away from their wives, too. Even if you, yourself, don't engage in sex tourism, drugs or other idiot behaviors, do you really want to expend a lot of time and money to be around a group that does? Sounds like a setup for you either to cave in and "go along to get along," or if you don't, for you to be bored out of your mind as the one relatively sober guy they expect to be the adult in the room while they party and screw around. Does either really appeal to you? [/quote]

OP here. A ton of useful insight here and I really appreciate that so many women are comfortable with the idea. I wanted to address this because it's interesting and I wasn't clear on my OP.

It's only two other friends that would go on the trip so it's not a big group. We are all still very close (group chat almost daily, video calls, fantasy football League, etc.). We use to all live in the city but thanks to coincidences and life, over the last 12 years or so, all three of us have never been able to be in same location at the same time. This would be that chance. In a round robin way, we are each godfathers to at least one of the other's kids, so I don't (nor our wives) have any concerns about each other and they certainly are not relative strangers.

I actually understand and agree with your point 100% though and learned a while ago that I can have close friends that don't make good travel partners  [/quote]

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