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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are your current kitchen and bathrooms non-functional or just out of date?[/quote]

I guess they function. There is a huge long crack in our old kitchen granite and some of the cabinets don’t close properly. The grout in the bathrooms is missing or discolored in many places. And yes everything is from the 90’s.

But I think what bothers me is that this is important to me and he just does not care. He thinks I should just get over it and see things his way, the only correct way to see the situation. [/quote]

Not really what functional means. Is the current layout fine such that you may only need a refresh? Is there a triangle (Google it) where all the main features are easily accessible to each other? Or is your fridge in the garage and stove on the balcony or some odd 1920’s house crazy layout?

I’d start with the bathroom the kids use the most and get that done. Even if you pay for it yourself all in should be less than $12k. Be over the top happy about it and he will let you get the kitchen done. If anything goes wrong tell him you really need his help on the next project even if it’s right tell him that[/quote]

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