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[quote=Anonymous]No matter what you do, you're going to have negative emotions. Wouldn't it be better to have the negative emotions and get your house back rather than having negative emotions and not having your space? Wouldn't you rather get your marriage back on track rather than have your MIL get between you and your DH? I totally get how difficult it is to overcome childhood conditioning and how difficult it is to establish a healthy boundary in the face of family disapproval. It's not easy but it has GOT to be done if you want healthy, happy relationships with the people most important to you - your spouse and your children. If your DH is unable to do it but is supportive of you, they you need to bite that bullet if you are unwilling/unable to end your relationship with him. I have no doubt you can get some excellent language and modeling advice from DCUM posters. This is an area where the community can really come through. [/quote]
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