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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My narcissistic child who is one of the children estranged themselves from both patents because he was yelled at growing up and thinks that is horrendous abuse has addictions and can't stay in a relationship.  Also major mental health issues genetically passed down that he's had his entire life. Their sibling is conscientious and has the ability to marry and have children. I plan on leaving the house and one retirement fund to the non narcissistic child and a retirement fund to the narcissistic one that will likely squander the money. They aren't getting the house. They have no need for it and I want to provide for grandchildren as well. I feel that is fair setting up my will unevenly to also give to my future grandchildren. [/quote]

Don’t do this. You should divide evenly among your biological children and if you don’t trust the dysfunctional child to manage it well, leave it in trust for them with a trustee who is not the golden child sibling. Be better.[/quote]

Look I'm sorry that you are estranged but if you make this choice and hate your parents and tell everyone how awful they are you have to understand that you also give up money associated with them

I'm also not diving up unevenly. One child will go onto produce offspring. They date and want to marry and have childen or foster or adopt children. They get more money to support them. The house isn't for the other child. It's for the grandchildren. The other lives on hedonistic pleasures cheating with multiple people. I'm not supporting that. Sorry. What trustee is going to somehow manage how money is spent by the wild child? No one will and the price of a house is not worth all that oversight. [/quote]

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