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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spend a lot of time with them in many different situations including with family. It’s not something you can do in six months so be prepared for at least a year. You want to see how they respond to the good, the bad and the ugly.[/quote]

Agree with this. There are four instances I think of when thinking about how I knew DH was going to be a great husband.

1.   My dad was diagnosed with a terminal illness when DH and I had been dating for 4 months.  The support DH gave me was amazing.
2.   I was working in a horrible environment but was stuck there for at least another 6 months. He helped me work out how to handle it.  He helped me research options if I couldn't make it the 6 months. He was just incredibly supportive
3.   We went to Paris together.  Both of us had been there before so we spent our time just wandering and seeing where it took us. I realized I wanted him by my side for all my adventures.

The 4th is silly but when we were dating early on, he moved into a new apartment by himself. Prior to that he'd lived with his friends.   He was SO excited and proud to show me how he decorated.

We've been married for 15 years and he's a great husband.  [/quote]

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