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[quote=Anonymous]As someone with a difficult MIL, I can sense that there is a history here you have no gotten into. From what you wrote it seems it was handled well (your DH immediately said no!) and that's honestly most of the battle. But you are so upset that I can guess that your history includes you being seen as a sort of "accessory" to the family, but not an ACTUAL family member who matters and should be planned around. I have this too, and yes if my MIL had suggested my DH/kid ditch me for Christmas while I had a health crisis I would be livid and she would act confused as to why that's rude. Deep breaths OP. Your DH has his head on straight. I am sorry you are having a rough pregnancy, and I hope it goes smoothly from this point forward. There will be time with cousins in the future, I am sure.[/quote]
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