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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t imagine divorcing for this reason if I had kids, no matter what age. I’d work on my marriage instead. Companionship with someone you like is a pretty great thing as you enter the second half of your life. [/quote]

+1 I would not divorce. The grass is NOT always greener. Now if your partner was not pulling his weight with the kids, was lazy, abusive, having an affair, etc. yes I would leave. But it sounds like you want to leave to find a hypothetical “someone else,” who may or may not (probably does not) exist. And keep in mind if you divorce older, let’s say when your kid is 20 and you’re say 50 - you could be in a situation dating a guy who has younger kids. Or a guy who is looking for a “nurse” to take care of him in his older years. Point is it’s not a great situation but what you have sounds like it COULD BE good IF you both worked at it. [/quote]

Well guess what? This person isn't you, and they can make their own decisions. [/quote]

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