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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As others have said, it’s up to your son. If you don’t feel like inviting him, fine. But if your son, who is presumably 21/22 and an adult, wants to invite him that is out of your hands.

Don’t start using the “I paid for it all alone” line with him now. You did it because you wanted to, right? Not to hang over his head for the rest of his life that he owes it to you to never talk to his dad, right?

Look your ex sounds like a loser. But stay on the high road. You’ve made it this far. [/quote]

This post is right. Lady, you sound like you're looking for a fight. Aren't you happy that you paid for college for your son? Why are you going to launch your son's adulthood with a motherly guilt trip?  You're going to ruin his graduation, his accomplishment. Because you're so obsessed with making sure your ex husband (and father of your child) doesn't receive any false credit. YOU need to grow up, OP. [/quote]

He is not my ex husband. Sorry, I mistyped in an earlier post.

And I married long after he was a deadbeat dad. Marrying my husband had nothing to do with his absence and lack of child support.[/quote]

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