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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse tried to police my contacts with old friends and colleagues. I shut that controlling sh** down immediately.[/quote]
+1 This woman has been a platonic (OP’s words) friend longer than there’s been a wife. [/quote]

Yeah because that makes it immune for an emotional affair (I would argue is already happening) to happen.

My husband doesn’t even talk to his own MOTHER that much so certainly if he was talking to some other woman that much we would have problems.

I really hate the argument that they were friends first as if that gives a pass for inappropriate behavior to occur or like they are immune from things crossing the line. I could be wrong but it sounds like you are heavily insinuating that because they were friends longer than they were married that the marriage is less important than the friendship.

When no when you take your vows to be married that means you are placing your spouse first. I can’t believe that you would ever think his relationship with this other woman should trump that of his own wife!! His wife is the one he shares his life with, possibly has children with, sleeps next to at night, grows old with. What could possibly trump that?[/quote]

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