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Ask yourself: "Would I be this mad if the friend was male?"

If the answer is yes, talk to your husband about your concerns.

If the answer is no, then shut up.

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Ehh no assuming this is a straight couple it’s highly highly inappropriate for a married man to be investing this much time into another woman that isn’t his wife or relative. What is he getting from this other woman that he needs all these phone calls from her that his wife can’t fill?

I don’t know many man who just chat on the phone for shits and giggles and here he is being married and investing all this time speaking on the phone with a woman who isn’t his wife. Hell no.

With a male friend feelings of attraction or an emotional affair can’t develop. This woman is married and so is OP’s husband why is she calling some other man everyday with her issues instead of talking to her husband or better yet why aren’t the spouses included in these interactions?

I hate this idea that a woman just has to turn a blind eye to problematic behaviors or she isn’t seen as the “cool” wife. Where there is smoke there is fire. Just because they haven’t officially crossed the line (yet) doesn’t mean there isn’t a problem there there.

Plus spouse should come first in your life and certainly over any other woman who is just a friend.

If my husband came to me with legit issues about a male friend constantly contacting me I wouldn’t have to think twice about whose feelings come first. [/quote]

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