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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so I am 99% sure he’s not attracted to her or anything like that, it’s a truly platonic friendship going back many years, she’s married too etc, but (of course there’s a BUT) she’s texting my husband, calling etc way too damn much for my taste about random stuff. I’m just not ok with it. It feels like it is crossing a line. I keep having that internal debate about, well but what’s the harm and they’ve been friends since way before I met him even and they talk about benign boring things it seems but then the other side of me wonders why the hell she is asking my husband this stuff and not finding someone else to ask. I fear I may just one day lose it and get pissed. Any one have wise thoughts?[/quote]

Yeah no call me old fashioned but that wouldn’t flush in a straight heterosexual relationship to me. I would not like my husband talking to some other woman that’s not a relative of his on the phone like that all the time. He may not have feelings for her now but that’s how things develop investing time and energy into another woman like that.

If he pushes back and puts the feelings of this other woman first than you know where you stand and I would take him to marriage counseling ASAP to give him a reminder of what it means to put your spouse first and that goes double for some other woman.[/quote]

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