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[quote=Anonymous]Op - my parents moving jumped-started my adult life. They sold our house as I was graduating from HS. I went to an out of state school because it then had become in-state for tuition. Vacations and summers were in an area where I knew no one. Sure, I may not have liked that they moved, at the time. I never thought, for a moment, that I had any say. If you want to do it, I think you do it. BUT don't expect them to want to hear all your excitement for it. I knew, even for summers in college, if I wanted to be somewhere else, I had to come up with a plan. Where was I going to live? How much would it cost and what summer job was I going to get to pay for it. What skills did I need to land this kind of job, a job that actually payed the rent, where I could support myself. It was a head-start on my independent financial life. I was a bit jealous of friends who loafed at their parent's house, went to their parent's country club and lounged by the pool in summer but I knew those were lifestyle luxuries they had not earned. I felt, overall, I was ahead of those peers in establishing an adult independent life.[/quote]
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