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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know that there are people who are either unstable or they somehow bring out the worst in others. They become the outcasts and those who oust them may not always act their best in the process. 
However that same group can be perfectly normal for someone without the unstable or “kick me” tendencies. [/quote]

What, pray tell, is a "kick me" tendency?[/quote]

There are people who are so clueless that they become bully targets. 
I had to distance myself from one of them because I noticed how she brought out the worst in me. I tried to clue her in but she insisted she wanted to be herself (which was acting dumb and clueless). This is what I call the kick me tendency. Act clueless - resist corrections - can’t tell off those who are unkind to you because of your cluelessness.

I am not a mean girl but that’s because I consciously distance myself in situations like this. Some people give in to temptation.

I am not saying it’s good; it’s human nature though.

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I'm beginning to see your point. [/quote]

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