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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know that there are people who are either unstable or they somehow bring out the worst in others. They become the outcasts and those who oust them may not always act their best in the process. However that same group can be perfectly normal for someone without the unstable or “kick me” tendencies. [/quote] This is what you tell yourself to justify your terrible behavior. It's victim blaming -- oh sure, we behaved badly, but Kelly was just so weird and awkward that can you blame us? We would never do that to someone more normal, someone who fit in better. By the way, the older I get, the more I realize that EVERYONE is weird sometimes. Everyone has times in their life when they can be hard to deal with. It's fine to just not like someone and to choose, personally, not to hang out with them. But if you do your worst (gossip, exclusion) that's 100% on you and no one "brought it out." No one is responsible for your actions but you.[/quote]
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